The Measure of a Man

Sometimes you know a man best by knowing his kids. 

When I first started teaching at Cooper High School, we needed money for our speech team budget, so we hosted a dinner theatre as a fundraiser. 

Nothing goes better with Greater Tuna than Harold’s Barbecue. 

Harold came and served the brisket and ‘damn hot sauce’ himself.

Here’s the whole cast of the CHS Speech Team’s production of Greater Tuna, 1992

Every part was played by a different student, rather than the two-man show that Joe Sears and Jaston Williams created, where they each played multiple characters.  Pure economics – the more kids you cast in the show, the more parents and grandparents and friends who buy tickets. 

It was a perfect cast, if I do say so myself.  The girl cast as Yippy couldn’t have been happier playing a dog.  

The Reverand Spikes, played by Jason Kaufman, and Vera Carp, played by Cheryl Harper

And the Baptist preacher played by a Jewish boy who wore a yarmulke every day, hid it with a cowboy hat.  Because I wouldn’t have thought of asking him to remove it.

Bertha Beumiller’s clan, from left, Ben Cunningham, Bonki Payne, Byron Wilkinson, Katie Perkins and Josh Roberts. Oh, the stories I could tell….

Laughter comes easily just thinking about Bertha Beumiller and her brood, and Vera Carp leading the Smut Snatchers meeting.  How Sam ever kept a straight face as the live portrait of the judge who died in a most compromising situation, I’ll never know.  

from left, Chris Williams, Nick Bell, John Siburt & Mark Hobbs. Gotta love the cigarette….

And the boys who played the radio announcers, Thurston Wheelis and Arlis Struvie, would’ve made Joe and Jaston proud. 

We had a great turnout for the show.  I met a lot of parents that night.  Like Charles and Judy Siburt, whose son, John, played one of those radio announcers.

I wasn’t ever close to Charles Siburt, a colleague of mine from Abilene Christian who passed away yesterday, but I respected him highly for the work he did to bring peace in churches.

I didn’t know him as Dr. Siburt, though. 

For two years his oldest son sat in my classroom, learning about public speaking and Lincoln-Douglas debate and memorizing lines for Greater Tuna

I got to know Charles through a son he’d raised.  A son who was more of a man at 16 than some I’ve known at 50. 

That’s how I’ll remember him, as John’s and Ben’s dad.

Perhaps his greatest work.

Charles created a seminar for church leaders called ElderLink and conducted several of these around the country every year. In 2007 he invited Kurt Boyland and me to teach classes on the work of CenterPeace in Dallas and Houston. The relationships and opportunities for further ministry we established in those places are ongoing, thanks to Charles. From left, Charles Siburt, Sally Gary, Sandy Lowe, Kurt Boyland, Randy Harris.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s